How to write a good profile.
1. Choose a eye catchy screen name.
When we say a screen name it is just something that is simple and eye catching. Something that is also different. Something that when yours eye fix on it, you will know something is different and you will want to know more.
Look into the camera.
Make a very nice picture of yourself. Notice i said of yourself and not with anyone else in the picture cause this is your profile. Now if you have a child, don’t put your child in the photo. You can discuss that later after you meet or if you want to add that to your profile you can but leave the child out of the picture.
Smile.
When you make the photo smile. A smile goes a long ways cause it shows your happy and very content with yourself. Not only is a smile nice but it is catchy. Everyone likes a good smile.
Be the only person in your main profile pic.
As i mention above you need to be the only one in the main profile picture. Its your profile and not your friends or your child or your family profile. It is all about you and you only. How to write a good profile is what it is all about.
Throw in a few pictures showing your active.
By taking some pictures of yourself showing your active such as “Bike riding” or “jogging” and doing what you like to do best. This way you may grab attention of someone who has the same activities as you do and this can be a draw for you. Just don’t go over the top showing to much activities.
Include yourself out with friends.
Show a few of yourself being social and your out with some friends. This can be attending some activities in the area. Doing the clubbing thing is not for all some in fact don’t like the clubbing cause of drinking and some look down on that. But being social and doing this with friends is very nice.
Use only high-quality photos.
Make sure you use a very nice camera or now day lots of nice pictures can be made by using the phone camera. Just make sure they are very nice and clean in detail.
Find a good dating site.
For sure i recommend www.cYourAd.com. the reason is you will not have any competition their. Also it is worldwide.
2 Write a headline that will grab you.
This need to be eye catchy also. This is something that will get your attention the same as the eye catchy screen name. You for sure need a header that will draw them to your profile. It can even be such as a ? mark or just something you may want to say that will grab the attention.
3 Tell a story or give a nice narrative of yourself or what you may be looking for.
This story/Narrative should be short and to the point and also be of you or what you are looking for. Keep it clean and to the point but yet describe in detail what you want.
Focus on the positive.Keep your narrative or little story on the positive side. Nobody like the negative side of things. Just keep it positive and simple.
4 Use language that is strong and not vulgar but show your strong.
Being positive and yet to the point but making your language very excited to read. Show your strength and never your weakness.
5 Be honest about your intentions, and being open.
Explain what your looking for and why. Don’t be a closed person being open and expressing yourself mean you don’t have to close any doors and they will know that the door is always open to discuss anything.
Stay honest.
Yes. Stay honest never lie about yourself and just say who you are and what your looking for and why. “Keep it Honest”
Be confident, not arrogant.
Being confident is a positive thing. You can be confident and strong and never have to be arrogant. Being arrogant can run a lot of people off.
Sexual innuendos.
You can use sexual innuendos but don’t over do it. use it very sparingly. Also using the F word is bad for some others it is ok Just leave it out. That is a decision you will have to make.
Avoid clichés like the plague.
This is one of the never never use. Total leave it out of your profile.
6 Keep your life about yourself brief.
Yes keep it simple. the kiss is the answer here.(kiss= keep it simple stupid ]. You don’t know what to drag your life into the profile. This is something you can keep an open door to when you meet the person and if they ask you then can tell or open up and discuss it if you want.
7 Edit and edit your profile.
Yes. You will want to write and edit your profile over and over until you get the one that will get you the best results. You may have to edit and rewrite it several times yes lots of time to get it right and like you want. As mention about how to write a good profile is what it all about
8 Shorten everything.
Try to keep it simple and short. Never drag it out over a long long profile cause they will read to a certain point and then stop reading it. Keep it to the short side also cause you may want to post it on different site and some site have mobile apps and if it is long then lots of the profile will not show up on the mobile app.
9 Leave nothing blank.
Answer all question and don’t leave any question unanswered. If you leave one out then that is the one in question to some.
I have taken the time here to write an outline on what i think will make a good profile. it will be nice for some and some it will not click but if you keep write it over and over taking out the bad things and adding the good things it will work.
Make sure you keep great eye catching headlines and never give up.
Written by the Joe Hand admin of cyourad.com
